| Starting conversations isn't rocket
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| | She'll
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| surgery, but
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| | get starry-eyed and start talking about
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| it can feel like it sometimes.You're
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| | her
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| about to get it broken down for you. How
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| | dreams... and you didn't seem like
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| to start a conversation with any
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| | cheesy wannabe
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| woman.The rule that determines what to
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| | player guy.If you want to talk about any
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| start talking
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| | subject, you can
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| about is Situational Relevance.What you
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| | use situational relevance as the bridge
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| start talking about has to be Relevant
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| | to get
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| to the Situation. In bars and
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| | you there. Let's say you work as a
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| nightclubs, the
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| | surgeon.If you say, "I'm a surgeon, a
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| atmosphere is about having fun and
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| | true professional
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| socializing.
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| | that makes a lot of money and saves
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| So what you use to start conversing has
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| | lives,"
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| to be
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| | you're bragging. Comes across pretty
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| relevant to an atmosphere of having fun
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| | lame.On the other hand, look at this:You
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| and
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| | call up a girl whose number you recently
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| socializing.If you stalk through a club
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| | got,
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| like a hunter, and
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| | Sally.You: Hey Sally, how's it
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| ignore everyone, you're not being
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| | going?Sally: Okay. You?You: Oh...
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| situationally
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| | relieved. Barely.Sally: Why's that?You:
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| relevant.On the other hand, if you see a
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| | Well, this young kid came into the ER
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| beautiful woman
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| | today
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| in the daytime, in a mall for instance.
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| | and his mother was all shaken up. Thank
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| In that
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| | God, he
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| case, why are you interrupting her day?
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| | was okay, just had heat stroke. Got some
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| You need
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| | water
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| to present a reason you're talking to
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| | into him and he was okay.Now she knows
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| them.If you stop and ask them their
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| | you're a doctor, without you
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| opinion on world
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| | bragging about it. This can be used for
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| politics, you're not being situationally
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| | anything
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| relevant. If you're talking to a woman
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| | in any profession.And speaking of phone
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| going
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| | numbers, how do you get one
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| about her day, specifically to her, you
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| | in a situationally relevant way?You
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| need to
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| | NEVER ask for her phone number. You never
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| do it for a relevant reason.One thing
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| | say, "Can I get your number?" No no no
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| that's always situationally relevant is
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| | no!Instead, after you've gotten done
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| a solid compliment. See, I'll share a
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| | talking, you
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| little
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| | suggest an activity to do together.Me:
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| secret with you: Women wear interesting
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| | Hey, it's been really nice meeting you
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| and
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| | Jackie.Jackie: Yeah, Sebastian, I had a
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| unique pieces of clothing and jewelry as
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| | great time.Me: Tell ya what - I'm heading
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| an easy
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| | to this cool
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| way for observant, confident men to
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| | free concert at the Common next weekend.
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| start
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| | You
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| conversations with them. If she's
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| | should come with.Jackie: That sounds
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| wearing a
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| | fun.Me: Cool, let me grab your
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| unique, cool pair of gold-colored high
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| | number.Then I take my phone out. Getting
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| heels,
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| | the number is
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| "Hey, I'm feelin' the heels" is
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| | relevant to meeting next weekend. Or for
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| situationally
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| | coffee.
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| relevant in the daytime.From there you
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| | Or for whatever.I don't want the number
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| go into conversation. And guess
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| | for the number's sake
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| what? SitRel rules conversation too.
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| | (which wouldn't be situationally
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| Everything
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| | relevant).
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| you converse about has to be
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| | Instead she agrees to a fun activity
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| situationally
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| | with me, and
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| relevant. So if you want to talk about
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| | of course we need each other's numbers
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| something,
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| | to finish
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| you have to bring it up in a way that's
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| | making plans.That's Situational
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| SitRel.A lot of things that are portrayed
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| | Relevance in action.
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| as cheesey or
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| | Everything you do needs to be
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| overplayed are seen like that because
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| | situationally
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| men just
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| | relevant. How you start a conversation,
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| drop these "lines" out of nowhere. Stuff
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| | the
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| like
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| | things you tell her, the things you ask
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| "What's your sign?" and "Tell me your
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| | her, and
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| dreams."
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| | how you get her number or keep the
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| But let's look at "Tell me your dreams",
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| | conversation
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| shall
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| | going. If you can master situational
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| we?How to ask that in a situationally
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| | relevance,
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| relevant way?---Situational Relevance in
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| | you can talk with women anywhere no
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| Action:Start by asking her what she does
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| | problem.Sebastian Drake has been writing
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| for a living.
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| | in the fields of Seduction, Diplomacy,
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| She'll answer with her job. Then you ask
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| | and Leadership for the past five years.
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| her, "Is
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| | In the past two years, he has won praise
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| that your dream job? Nine out of ten
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| | and accolodates for his oustanding and
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| women will
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| | effective coaching on live programs,
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| answer no.From there, you can say, "Oh?
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| | workshops, and seminars. He is a
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| What are your
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| | cofounder of theApproach: The Science of
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| dreams then?"It looks like this:Pick-Up
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| | Social Chemistry for the Modern
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| Artist: So, what do you for a living
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| | Gentleman, bringing profound lifestyle
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| girl?Girl: I'm an accountant.PUA: Oh
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| | changes to any man's social, romantic,
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| really? Is that your dream job?Girl: Not
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| | and sex life.Find out what your skill
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| really.PUA: Oh. What are your dreams
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