| Starting conversations isn't rocket surgery, but | | | | dreams... and you didn't seem like cheesy wannabe |
| it can feel like it sometimes.You're about to get it | | | | player guy.If you want to talk about any subject, you |
| broken down for you. How | | | | can |
| to start a conversation with any woman.The rule that | | | | use situational relevance as the bridge to get |
| determines what to start talking | | | | you there. Let's say you work as a surgeon.If you |
| about is Situational Relevance.What you start talking | | | | say, "I'm a surgeon, a true professional |
| about has to be Relevant | | | | that makes a lot of money and saves lives," |
| to the Situation. In bars and nightclubs, the | | | | you're bragging. Comes across pretty lame.On the |
| atmosphere is about having fun and socializing. | | | | other hand, look at this:You call up a girl whose number |
| So what you use to start conversing has to be | | | | you recently got, |
| relevant to an atmosphere of having fun and | | | | Sally.You: Hey Sally, how's it going?Sally: Okay. |
| socializing.If you stalk through a club like a hunter, and | | | | You?You: Oh... relieved. Barely.Sally: Why's that?You: |
| ignore everyone, you're not being situationally | | | | Well, this young kid came into the ER today |
| relevant.On the other hand, if you see a beautiful | | | | and his mother was all shaken up. Thank God, he |
| woman | | | | was okay, just had heat stroke. Got some water |
| in the daytime, in a mall for instance. In that | | | | into him and he was okay.Now she knows you're a |
| case, why are you interrupting her day? You need | | | | doctor, without you |
| to present a reason you're talking to them.If you stop | | | | bragging about it. This can be used for anything |
| and ask them their opinion on world | | | | in any profession.And speaking of phone numbers, |
| politics, you're not being situationally | | | | how do you get one |
| relevant. If you're talking to a woman going | | | | in a situationally relevant way?You NEVER ask for |
| about her day, specifically to her, you need to | | | | her phone number. You never |
| do it for a relevant reason.One thing that's always | | | | say, "Can I get your number?" No no no no!Instead, |
| situationally relevant is | | | | after you've gotten done talking, you |
| a solid compliment. See, I'll share a little | | | | suggest an activity to do together.Me: Hey, it's been |
| secret with you: Women wear interesting and | | | | really nice meeting you |
| unique pieces of clothing and jewelry as an easy | | | | Jackie.Jackie: Yeah, Sebastian, I had a great time.Me: |
| way for observant, confident men to start | | | | Tell ya what - I'm heading to this cool |
| conversations with them. If she's wearing a | | | | free concert at the Common next weekend. You |
| unique, cool pair of gold-colored high heels, | | | | should come with.Jackie: That sounds fun.Me: Cool, let |
| "Hey, I'm feelin' the heels" is situationally | | | | me grab your number.Then I take my phone out. |
| relevant in the daytime.From there you go into | | | | Getting the number is |
| conversation. And guess | | | | relevant to meeting next weekend. Or for coffee. |
| what? SitRel rules conversation too. Everything | | | | Or for whatever.I don't want the number for the |
| you converse about has to be situationally | | | | number's sake |
| relevant. So if you want to talk about something, | | | | (which wouldn't be situationally relevant). |
| you have to bring it up in a way that's SitRel.A lot of | | | | Instead she agrees to a fun activity with me, and |
| things that are portrayed as cheesey or | | | | of course we need each other's numbers to finish |
| overplayed are seen like that because men just | | | | making plans.That's Situational Relevance in action. |
| drop these "lines" out of nowhere. Stuff like | | | | Everything you do needs to be situationally |
| "What's your sign?" and "Tell me your dreams." | | | | relevant. How you start a conversation, the |
| But let's look at "Tell me your dreams", shall | | | | things you tell her, the things you ask her, and |
| we?How to ask that in a situationally relevant | | | | how you get her number or keep the conversation |
| way?---Situational Relevance in Action:Start by asking | | | | going. If you can master situational relevance, |
| her what she does for a living. | | | | you can talk with women anywhere no |
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