A Friendship Too Brief

Too soon for lunch and hungry after a spin throughThe grammar and sentences flowed quite well, but the
town on my bike, I spied a Dunkin Donuts and stoppedtyping was littered with mis-strikes and typing errors.
for a break. To while the time, I brought along myOne cat wound his body around my legs and another
graphic arts workbook. Next to me two stools awaypeeked with one eye from the kitchen. After coffee, I
sat an old man, dressed in scruffy, rough clothing,offered to help clean up, curious about the rest of the
craning his head to get a better look at my workbook. Ihouse. Following Henry into the kitchen, he proudly
asked him if he would like to see it and he slid overpointed to the new refrigerator in the middle of one
eagerly.wall in front of the two windows. It turned out that his
He introduced himself as Henry and revealed that heoldest son had it delivered one day. I gathered that his
worked as a graphic designer in New York in theson only visited his Dad once a year to see how he
fifties. Though his wife died of cancer twenty yearswas doing.
ago, he continued to live in their house, alone exceptDuring the next three weeks, I started to help Henry
for two stray cats. He offered to show me some ofmake his kitchen more livable. I painted the cabinets,
his graphic art that he saved.threw out the forty-year-old spices, washed the dishes
So the following Saturday I rode over to his house. I(most of which lay congealed in a pantry sink. The
stood transfixed in the path to the front door.back door was completely blocked with junk, his
Surrounding me were weeds head high, rubble strewngarbage being carried out through the front door and
across the brick path as if it were a forest floor. Ionto the porch. Henry wasn't too concerned with the
carefully made my way through treacherous roseunsanitary conditions, but would rather have me fix up
thorns, stickers and assorted junk to rickety stairssome of his treasures. Like a two foot long sailing ship
leading to a small porch. At one end sat a largehe and his son made together. It needed major repairs
wooden chest and an old doorless refrigerator at theand re-rigging. So I took it home and worked on it for a
other. These signs of neglect failed to prepare me forcouple of weeks. He cried when I gave it to him. Henry
the unimaginable scene inside the house.showed signs of dementia, forgetting to eat and being
Inside, Henry led me through a dark hall through anconfused with time and the days of the week. A
archway leading to the living room/dining room,neighbor finally contacted a free lunch program which
apologizing all the way for the mess. And what awould supply Henry with at least one good meal per
mess! Covering the floor were newspapers, Victorianday.
bric-a-brac of every description. More appalling wasDuring the rest of the summer, I enjoyed repairing
the inch-thick layer of dust covering every unusedvarious things around the house. One interesting
surface. Framed art filled every square inch of wallproject was the restoration of an old Gibson mandolin.
space, festooned with trailing spider webs and glassMissing were the strings, the bridge, a tuning knob and
hiding under a layer of grime. It would take at leastpieces of mother-of-pearl decorations. Henry told me a
twenty years of neglect for this amount of dirt tostory how he saw it in a pawn shop window and
accumulate!bought it for ten dollars. I placed it exactly where it was
Henry shuffled over to a low, homemade bookshelfon the wall over the book shelf, gleaming with new
and retrieved a large scrap album bursting with paper.varnish and looking as it must have looked in 1888
Henry lovingly turned each page, reminiscing how andwhen it was new. Throughout the house were
for whom he created each piece. I learned that manysamples of Henry's wife's hobby -- collecting Victorian
a nineteen forty- six Macy ad came from his brushes.paraphernalia. Old dolls, boxes, hand-made toys and
In the center of the room sat a large oak draftingantique books of every description were piled on
bench with an angled work top and adjustable shelvesevery surface.
underneath. Dozens of brushes, pencils, and assortedHenry died at ninety-two, six years ago. The house still
drafting tools sat waiting on its surface. I'm sure nonestands as it was, dilapidated and run down. Everything
of them had been used for two or three decades.was left as it was except for a few things his son
Nearby on a small table sat a new looking portabletook away -- the mandolin, the Boston rocker and the
typewriter with a partially typed sheet of paper in themodel ship. Nobody cared for this kind old man who
carriage. While Henry went to fix us a cup of coffee, Imissed his dead wife to the point of barely existing.
sneaked a peek at the first paragraph. It seemed toHow many poor souls are there out in the world with
be the beginning of his memoirs, featuring hisno-one to share a life with? I'll miss him.
experiences repairing the old Morris Canal in the fifties.Writing soothes my soul.